Money CAN buy health

We always said money cant buy health. Is that true? I did advised ppl dun just keep working to earn money and neglect your health. Now, I did change my view bit. Money can buy health, to some extent.

Healthy food, is never in cheap price. Most of the cheap foods are not healthy, like fast food which too oily, economic rice which too salty, tin food which too much preservative etc. Home cook is healthy. But that's expensive. To cook a dinner for 2 persons, one soup 2 dishes (healthy menu), will cost at least RM30. Not only the raw materials are expensive, time of cooking also 'expensive'. Estimate cooking time from preparation to done, at least 1 hour. That 1 hour you may meeting with someone that could brought you million business.

Healthy lifestyle for example regular exercise, it's not cheap. Jogging can be expensive now. With the air pollution now, you cant jogging anywhere you like. Even you do, the air that you inhaled may not healthy. So to exercise at a place that healthy, you need to pay. Maybe fitness center, or maybe club house, or your neighborhood garden which you paid for the maintained fees.

When you fall sick, without medical card you wont get be the first one who get treatment. If you dun have money to pay for certain deposit, you cant even get a bed in the hospital.

So health, is actually need money to buy.

Unconditional Love

Unconditional love refers to love someone regardless of one's action or belief. Or most ppl will understand it as loving someone without hoping returns. But I dun believe that we can do so much things to show our love to someone but hoping nothing from him. Basic human being, we at least will hope the person love us back like we do. For greedy instinct we even hope to get more than what we gave. So is that mean we never give unconditional love?

I dun think so. We still give unconditional love. We HOPE there will have returns of our love, it doesn't mean MUST have returns. When we keep giving love, but nothing in returns, are we stop giving now? If yes, that's not unconditional love. If no, that's unconditional love.

Example, the most common unconditional love we give is to children. Parents always give their child unconditional love. They always said we dun expect they pay us back. In fact, really they dun want anything in returns? They dun wish their child love them? Then why are the old forks in old forks home so upset and lonely? Of course, we, parents hope our child will love us like we love them, and take care of us when we are old. But does that means if when we know our child wont take care us, we will not love her anymore? We will regret to love her before? Even regret to create her? I wont. So I think that's my unconditional love to my little one.

Another unconditional love, to your lover. Dun tell me you didn't hope anything from your lover after you did so many things to show how much you love him. I hope so much from him. I want him to love me, even more than I love him. I want him to do everything for me, fetch me to wherever I want, buy me whatever I like, listen whatever I want to tell, stay by me all the time... Then I ask myself, if he dun do any of it, will I still love him? Yes, I do. Of course, I'm not stupid that even he treat me badly and dun love me at all, and I still love him like idiot.

So my conclusion for unconditional love is, love someone in hoping for reasonable returns and will continue loving even you dun get what you want.

Yesterday, I saw him sleeping so tired. I'm wondering when he is stressed and tired, he needs sleep more or love? I guess physically he needs sleep, rest. But mentally he will still need love. So I will continue to love him even he cant talk to me when I wish he could.