Unconditional love refers to love someone regardless of one's action or belief. Or most ppl will understand it as loving someone without hoping returns. But I dun believe that we can do so much things to show our love to someone but hoping nothing from him. Basic human being, we at least will hope the person love us back like we do. For greedy instinct we even hope to get more than what we gave. So is that mean we never give unconditional love?
I dun think so. We still give unconditional love. We HOPE there will have returns of our love, it doesn't mean MUST have returns. When we keep giving love, but nothing in returns, are we stop giving now? If yes, that's not unconditional love. If no, that's unconditional love.
Example, the most common unconditional love we give is to children. Parents always give their child unconditional love. They always said we dun expect they pay us back. In fact, really they dun want anything in returns? They dun wish their child love them? Then why are the old forks in old forks home so upset and lonely? Of course, we, parents hope our child will love us like we love them, and take care of us when we are old. But does that means if when we know our child wont take care us, we will not love her anymore? We will regret to love her before? Even regret to create her? I wont. So I think that's my unconditional love to my little one.
Another unconditional love, to your lover. Dun tell me you didn't hope anything from your lover after you did so many things to show how much you love him. I hope so much from him. I want him to love me, even more than I love him. I want him to do everything for me, fetch me to wherever I want, buy me whatever I like, listen whatever I want to tell, stay by me all the time... Then I ask myself, if he dun do any of it, will I still love him? Yes, I do. Of course, I'm not stupid that even he treat me badly and dun love me at all, and I still love him like idiot.
So my conclusion for unconditional love is, love someone in hoping for reasonable returns and will continue loving even you dun get what you want.
Yesterday, I saw him sleeping so tired. I'm wondering when he is stressed and tired, he needs sleep more or love? I guess physically he needs sleep, rest. But mentally he will still need love. So I will continue to love him even he cant talk to me when I wish he could.
I dun think so. We still give unconditional love. We HOPE there will have returns of our love, it doesn't mean MUST have returns. When we keep giving love, but nothing in returns, are we stop giving now? If yes, that's not unconditional love. If no, that's unconditional love.
Example, the most common unconditional love we give is to children. Parents always give their child unconditional love. They always said we dun expect they pay us back. In fact, really they dun want anything in returns? They dun wish their child love them? Then why are the old forks in old forks home so upset and lonely? Of course, we, parents hope our child will love us like we love them, and take care of us when we are old. But does that means if when we know our child wont take care us, we will not love her anymore? We will regret to love her before? Even regret to create her? I wont. So I think that's my unconditional love to my little one.
Another unconditional love, to your lover. Dun tell me you didn't hope anything from your lover after you did so many things to show how much you love him. I hope so much from him. I want him to love me, even more than I love him. I want him to do everything for me, fetch me to wherever I want, buy me whatever I like, listen whatever I want to tell, stay by me all the time... Then I ask myself, if he dun do any of it, will I still love him? Yes, I do. Of course, I'm not stupid that even he treat me badly and dun love me at all, and I still love him like idiot.
So my conclusion for unconditional love is, love someone in hoping for reasonable returns and will continue loving even you dun get what you want.
Yesterday, I saw him sleeping so tired. I'm wondering when he is stressed and tired, he needs sleep more or love? I guess physically he needs sleep, rest. But mentally he will still need love. So I will continue to love him even he cant talk to me when I wish he could.
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